Saturday, September 14, 2013

Why do we put on weight how do we take it off?


Why do we put on weight how do we take it off?

 

I have been thinking the past couple days about weight gain and the inability to lose weight.

I have come up with four reasons why people put on weight

1. Stress, 

2. Boredom,  

3. Unhappiness,  

4. Genetics.  

It was easier to gain weight than to lose weight, so the key is not to gain extra weight.  

Boredom – to tire with dullness or repetition.  

Stress – mental, emotional, or physical tension, strain or distress.  

Unhappy – sad, sorrowful. Causing misfortune, unlucky. Not pleasing or satisfied.  

Genetics – the biological study of heredity. Of or relating to origin or development.  

Compulsion – the act or compelling or state of being compelled. An irresistible impulse to act irrationally.

Of course overeating can also be viewed as a habit, a compulsion, an addiction or an attempt at self-destruction.  

For example, if I overeat and become fat then no one will be interested in me.  

In this case the person is consciously choosing to overeat, so as to gain weight, in order that they will in their eyes become less appealing.  

This of course is covering up some other problem with self -worth, image or esteem that they are wrestling with.  

I am certainly bored with the routine I am currently in.

I am very happy. I perceive I have very little stress; there is no genetic basis for my weight gain so my weight gain comes when I am bored, typically with routine.  

In this case a very boring routine.

What is the reason for your weight gain or your inability to take-off weight? 

What is the cause?

Are you predestined because of genetics or heredity to being a bit overweight?  

Are you unhappy with some aspect in your life which causes you to overeat in order to mask the pain of unhappiness?  

Is there so much stress or tension in your life that when you get a moment of any kind you are putting food in your mouth?  

Or are you just bored with your routine in life, can’t figure out how to get out of the rut so you eat for pleasure? 

Eating can be very pleasant when you are in the act of eating.  

After you are done eating, you may fill yourself with guilt and thus making the experience very unpleasant.


In order to lose weight, it would be helpful to know the reason behind why you overeat and then accept that as the reason and move one.  

Some people are predisposed to be overweight.  

Others bring the problem upon themselves.

If it is a problem, then there is a solution 

First recognize the problem, accept it as a problem and create a plan to overcome the problem.  

As with every problem in life there is always a solution.  

I love you my Lord. I am so happy that you provide me with bits of inspiration. I know I probably don’t have very many original thoughts, it is nice however to put my thoughts down on paper.  

As I write, I think about things. It helps clarify things for me.  

Praise to you Lord Jesus Christ, could you please give me a good night’s rest this evening. I haven’t slept well in weeks as you know and I would really appreciate having a long nights rest. I commit to honoring you Lord, I commit to humbling myself before you. Watch over me this weekend; keep me free from harm, away from temptation and away from the evil one. 

Chase Bank, "Lack of care policy", BEWARE

Today's blog post is a bit off topic but I have to share anyway because this is so outrageous and it could happen to anyone who has a checkbook. In other words: consumer beware.

This blog post was originally written by my friend Liz, I am reposting her post.

My friend William was once married to Mary. Just weeks prior to separation when they were wrapping up their marriage and planning who was moving and where, Mary took a stack of checks from William's business account. She was not an account owner or signator and had no access to the account whatsoever. She then wrote out a series of three checks to herself totaling $12,000, signed the checks, walked into Chase Bank and cashed them all. Seriously, that's pretty ballsy of anyone. Mary didn't even try to forge William's name or anything-- she wrote the checks to herself and signed her own name. Wow!

It took William several weeks before he realized that the business account was missing $12,000 (not exactly chump change) and when he did, he immediately went to Chase Bank in Cedar Hills, Utah, discovered what happened and filed a claim with Chase for the theft.

First, Chase refused to give William an answer one way or the other if they felt they had any responsibility whatsoever for erroneously cashing large checks when the signer wasn't an account owner at all. After letters and calls and more calls and letters went unanswered, I sent out a Tweet. Chase bank contacted me right away (dang, I love Twitter!). I put Chase in touch with William and they promised to look into the matter and get back to him within 48 hours.

Chase contacted William yesterday and denied his claim, saying that Chase bore no responsibility whatsoever because the checks weren't locked in a safe and he "allowed" someone to steal his checks. So, in other words, "too bad so sad." So, the employee who didn't even look up who was allowed to sign the checks, nor did she check to see if signatures matched, did absolutely nothing wrong at all! Each of the three checks were several thousand dollars (one was $6,000). I think a reasonable employee or account owner would think one should look that up for larger checks at a minimum, right? Not if you work at Chase!

So, if you need money, I suppose the lesson here is: Just find anyone with a Chase account, take a check, write it out to yourself, sign your name, walk into a Chase bank and cash the check. No need doing pesky things like trying to forge a signature-- just use your own driver's license and name, simple as that.

Now if you're an account owner at Chase, it sucks for us because Chase thinks that we must lock up all our checks in a safe and take only one out at a time. If, by chance, we have some checks in a handbag or a pocket and somehow someone takes them and decides to cash a check to themselves for a few thousand dollars, then guess who pays for that? Us, the account holder! What The HELL?!? What's the point of that signature card? Apparently none! 

So, my word of warning to all you Chase customers. Either: 1) Buy a safe and lock up every single one of your checks, or 2) Get a new bank.