Showing posts with label tongue. Show all posts
Showing posts with label tongue. Show all posts

Wednesday, April 3, 2024

The Power of Words: Harnessing the Tongue for Good

 

The Power of Words: Harnessing the Tongue for Good

Introduction

In the intricate tapestry of human interaction, few tools wield as much influence as the tongue. Our words have the power to uplift or devastate, to heal or wound, to build up or tear down. As bearers of the divine image, we are called to steward this gift of speech with the utmost care, recognizing its potential for both blessing and harm. Through the lens of Scripture, particularly focusing on passages such as Matthew 7:12, Matthew 12:34-37, and Matthew 15:11, we embark on a journey to understand the significance of guarding our tongues and speaking life into the world.

The Heart-Mouth Connection

In Matthew 12:34-37 (New International Version), Jesus teaches: "You brood of vipers, how can you who are evil say anything good? For the mouth speaks what the heart is full of. A good man brings good things out of the good stored up in him, and an evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in him. But I tell you that everyone will have to give account on the day of judgment for every empty word they have spoken. For by your words, you will be acquitted, and by your words, you will be condemned."

The Destructive Potential of the Tongue

Matthew 15:11 (New International Version) states: "What goes into someone's mouth does not defile them, but what comes out of their mouth, that is what defiles them."

Thoughts, Words, and Actions

In Mark 2:8 (New International Version), Jesus perceives the thoughts of those around Him: "Immediately Jesus knew in his spirit that this was what they were thinking in their hearts, and he said to them, 'Why are you thinking these things?'"

Luke 6:43-45 (New International Version) emphasizes: "No a good tree bears bad fruit, nor does a bad tree bear good fruit. Each tree is recognized by its own fruit. People do not pick figs from thornbushes, or grapes from briers. A good man brings good things out of the good stored up in his heart, and an evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in his heart. For the mouth speaks what the heart is full of."

The Challenge of Tongue-Taming

James 3:3-12 (New International Version) warns about the tongue: "When we put bits into the mouths of horses to make them obey us, we can turn the whole animal. Or take ships as an example. Although they are so large and are driven by strong winds, they are steered by a very small rudder wherever the pilot wants to go. Likewise, the tongue is a small part of the body, but it makes great boasts. Consider what a great forest is set on fire by a small spark. The tongue also is a fire, a world of evil among the parts of the body. It corrupts the whole body, sets the whole course of one’s life on fire, and is itself set on fire by hell. All kinds of animals, birds, reptiles, and sea creatures are being tamed and have been tamed by mankind, but no human being can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison. With the tongue, we praise our Lord and Father, and with it, we curse human beings, who have been made in God’s likeness. Out of the same mouth come praise and cursing. My brothers and sisters, this should not be. Can both fresh water and salt water flow from the same spring? My brothers and sisters, can a fig tree bear olives, or a grapevine bear figs? Neither can a salt spring produce fresh water."

Living in Integrity

Romans 7:14-25 (New International Version) reflects the struggle against sin: "We know that the law is spiritual; but I am unspiritual, sold as a slave to sin. I do not understand what I do. For what I want to do I do not do, but what I hate I do. And if I do what I do not want to do, I agree that the law is good. As it is, it is no longer I myself who do it, but it is sin living in me. For I know that good itself does not dwell in me, that is, in my sinful nature. For I have the desire to do what is good, but I cannot carry it out. For I do not do the good I want to do, but the evil I do not want to do—this I keep on doing. Now if I do what I do not want to do, it is no longer I who do it, but it is sin living in me that does it. So I find this law at work: Although I want to do good, evil is right there with me. For in my inner being, I delight in God’s law; but I see another law at work in me, waging war against the law of my mind and making me a prisoner of the law of sin at work within me. What a wretched man I am! Who will rescue me from this body that is subject to death? Thanks be to God, who delivers me through Jesus Christ our Lord!"

Practical Applications

Scripture abounds with practical wisdom for cultivating wholesome speech:

·       Philippians 2:14 (New International Version) urges us to: "Do everything without grumbling or arguing."

·       Galatians 6:4 (New International Version) advises: "Each one should test their own actions. Then they can take pride in themselves alone, without comparing themselves to someone else."

·       Titus 3:2 (New International Version) encourages us to: "To slander no one, to be peaceable and considerate, and always to be gentle toward everyone."

·       James 1:19-27 (New International Version) underscores: "My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, because human anger does not produce the righteousness that God desires. Therefore, get rid of all moral filth and the evil that is so prevalent and humbly accept the word planted in you, which can save you."

·       1 Peter 3:10 (New International Version) emphasizes: "For, 'Whoever would love life and see good days must keep their tongue from evil and their lips from deceitful speech.'"

Conclusion

In the grand tapestry of creation, our words serve as threads weaving together the fabric of human experience. As stewards of this sacred gift, we bear the responsibility to speak life, truth, and love into the world. Through the wisdom of Scripture, we are reminded of the profound impact our words wield and the necessity of guarding our tongues with vigilance. May we heed the exhortations of Jesus, Paul, James, and Peter, cultivating hearts of integrity and mouths that overflow with grace and wisdom. Let us commit to using our tongues not as instruments of destruction but as vessels of blessing, honoring God and edifying one another in all our speech. Amen.

 

Friday, December 20, 2013

Words are easily spoken but not soon forgiven


Choose your words wisely 

The following is an excerpt from my book titled   

 "As I was walking God was talking and this is what he said".  

This is the sixth post in a 6 part series covering the following topics....  

Fatherhood (posted on December 15)

Teaching our Children (December 16)

Motherhood (December 16)

Absentee Fathers/Godless Fathers (December 17)

Being equally yoked in marriage and the Love of the Lord (December 18)

Doubt (December 19)

Our choice of words one to another. (Todays post) 

Several years ago I spent a great deal of time walking and as I walked I carried a notebook and a pen. I received what I know to be Devine inspiration from God. What you are about to read is what God would like us all to hear. I believe God gave me these words to write down so that I might share them with the world. God our Father in Heaven wants us all to know he Loves us and he also wants us all to know that Love is much more than never having to say you are sorry.  

Please take time to reflect on the words given to me by God our Father in Heaven. God has instructed me to tell you that he would like to ask each of you to take the time to read these multiple times until they really soak into your conscience. He knows that by doing this, you will change your life forever. You will also change the lives of everyone around you. 

Enjoy what God our Father in Heaven has provided me as a gift to you and to all those you know.  

God Bless one and all. 

Matthew on our choice of words  

Matthew 15:11, 18-20) Make a tree good and its fruits will be good, or make a tree bad and its fruits will be bad. For a tree is recognized by its fruits (we are the tree). You brood of vipers, how can you that are evil say anything that is good. For out of the overflow of the heart the mouths speak. The good man brings good things out of the good that is stored up in him and the evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in him. But I tell you man will have to give account on the Day of Judgment for every careless word they have spoken. For by your words you will be acquitted and by your words you will be condemned.  

So critically important, the words we choose to say one to another! 

We have to watch what we say very carefully, we need to be slow to anger, have patience and not say things that we will later regret. Our mouth and our tongue are used by Satan to cause pain, misery and suffering to others and to our self. Think before you speak! Ask yourself this question.  

Is what I am about to say good and thus from the Lord or evil and thus from Satan.  

Choose your words carefully, they can destroy a relationship in no time.  

If you have an issue with someone it is much better to bring your issue before the Lord in prayer than to lash out at one another later regretting that which was said.  

Words are easily spoken but not soon forgiven 

You must be very, very careful when speaking to others, choose your words wisely and you will not become a fool.

Before you speak

Slow down - remain calm.
Don't raise your voice -Talk in your normal voice
Listen, Listen, Listen

There once was a wise old owl, the more he saw, the less he spoke. The less he spoke, the more he heard, why can't we be like that old bird.

Never say anything that you will later regret.
Don't intentionally hurt someone else with your words, please don't do this.
If it is to difficult for you to curb your tongue, leave.  

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